You don't need to be gluten free, paleo, raw vegan, etc etc to be healthy, all you need is to truly care where your food is coming from, and if it supporting people, not corporations.
You don't need to be a straight, republican, or democrat, to be a vital and integral part of this country, and this planet. You don't need to be popular in person or on the Internet to connect and be happy. And you don't need 100k with a two cars a big house and two kids to be successful.
You don't ever need to be or do anything anyone tells you is "the right way".
You can listen, and you can learn, but you don't HAVE to believe, or become, anything you don't want to, or choose to be.
The only thing we NEED to have is love and respect for #1 ourselves, and #2 every person, animal, tree, everything, around you.
We can start there.